But wow, this book fell off a cliff or something! What the hell happened?? The premise of this psychological thriller is fairly straightforward. The first person narrator has amnesia. More speci My negative attitude is a ruse, I swear it. More specifically, she has a mythical combination of several different forms of amnesia which happen to co-exist simultaneously at the exact same time. Maybe that should have been my first clue.
She has retrograde amnesia as a result of a mysterious traumatic episode that occurred years earlier, and on top of this she has anterograde amnesia which affects her episodic memory: she cannot retain anything new. I love the idea of this.
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I love the idea that without memory retention, one cannot build experiences and without experiences, he cannot forge interpersonal bonds with others, which means he cannot develop relationships or attain any kind of emotional maturity or love. He cannot even experience the feeling of anticipation because it would require a preexisting sense of future combined with a knowledge of the past, both of which are conspicuously absent when you have to be reminded every morning that you have amnesia to begin with.
There is no future, there is no past, there is no anticipation of anything. It is only the here and now. Still, Watson manages to muck it all up. It devolves so quickly to predictable Sleeping with the Enemy —style fare that all enthusiasm for the psychological part of the story is lost. Truly, I think this could have been a decent novel, I really do. Sort of. View all 71 comments. Nov 30, Alex rated it did not like it Shelves: mystery , audiobook. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers.
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To view it, click here. I think I tend to judge books more harshly when I listen to them because I can't skim the text or skip parts that bore me. Before I Go to Sleep is a highly improbable novel that's practically a fantasy. A very slow, drawn-out, horribly written fantasy. Christine, the protagonist, wakes up in a strange bed with a strange man. He tells her he's her husband, Ben, and she has amnesia -- she cannot form short-term memories. Think Memento. Hey, in fact, I think I tend to judge books more harshly when I listen to them because I can't skim the text or skip parts that bore me.
Hey, in fact, this book is just like that movie! Determined to figure out the mystery of her past, Christine sees a doctor in secret and keeps a day-to-day journal. That's pretty much all you need to know. The bulk of the book is Christine rereading her journal. Ugh, we get the point. Throughout the book, one finds out as Christine does that her husband is lying to her about how she got amnesia she was attacked; he tells her it's a car accident , her son he says they have no kids; they had a son , her best friend moving away nope , etc etc.
Obviously something is creepily wrong, and yet Christine is like, "Hmmm. I can't really go into how much I thought the plot sucked it did; a lot, in case you were wondering because my brain might implode. The audiobook narrator did not help. She had this grating voice and whenever she read Claire, I wanted to throw my iPod out my car window.
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Once again, we have a female protagonist with no autonomy. And this time it's because her horrible cheating made it so! Ladies, no sex for you outside marriage even though dudes do it all the time, because your lover will probably try to asphyxiate you on a tile floor and then stalk you for years and years only to kidnap you and keep you hostage with him in his love shack.
Oh, this is a good segue into the gratuitous violence of the book. It was like, "and then I cracked my head against the radiator! She's supposed to be Christine's BFF and she just doesn't talk to or try to see her anymore? Dear Adam -- you suck as a son. Dear Ben -- you suck at still being in love with Christine and letting some dude pretend to be you to steal her out of the clinic.
Congrats, SJ Watson. View all 51 comments. May 04, Lou rated it it was amazing Shelves: june-read. June 15th 2am I am writing this down in my journal I must do this otherwise I fear tomorrow I might not remember anything. Anything about the book I read today or about me or my wife, well she says she is. I woke up this morning and my eyes were cast upon a striking beautiful woman in an even more striking body wearing nice lingerie that fits like a glove.
I have no idea at that moment who she is, she says she's my wife but I don't remember being married! I am trying to piece together my lif June 15th 2am I am writing this down in my journal I must do this otherwise I fear tomorrow I might not remember anything. I am trying to piece together my life. All this is too much to muster I have been told I was in an accident I had fallen over an egg and banged my head. Strange but I don't remember this, this is what she my wife tells me. I need to write this in my oh so important journal otherwise I will run through the same routine again and not recollect her or the egg.
Oh yes that book before I forget this book has inspired me to write more into this journal as the female protagonist is in same situation as me. Her story is ever so more gripping, its tense I am almost glued to the pages her quest is heart warming and heartbreaking I felt tears of joy and sadness on the completion of her story.
The story is in the first-person narrative and flows in a visceral fashion. They say it can be cured what we have if we piece together our past and write, I hope so. The story was something fresh and different well worth the read. When I wake up tomorrow I must remember on reading this journal that I have to share these thoughts and write a review. View all 12 comments. Jul 13, Mo Shah rated it liked it Shelves: read-in What a frustrating book. I want someone else I know to read it so I can discuss it with them, to see if they agree with my conclusion.
Sarah, you should read it and let me know what you think. I really really liked this book in the beginning. The concept, while not strictly novel I can recall maybe half a dozen stories where amnesia like this features prominently is utilized to great effect. The mystery is initially built quite satisfactorily, and you're drawn in as a reader. Fairly soon Argh. Fairly soon, however, the concept frays a bit and you have to suspend a little bit of disbelief to get through the book.
There were holes that I saw - not insurmountable ones, but still distracting. Even so, the ending was a let down, because what should have been something emotionally laden was handled like an afterthought. With a bit of editing and some revision, this could have been a much more engaging book. The first half works really well, and then it sort of deflates for me. Too bad it didn't finish as strong. View all 33 comments. Jul 12, Mandy rated it it was amazing. I am totally speechless. This book was amazing.
It had a great plot about a woman who has amnesia and cannot remember her memories from day to day. She begins to keep a journal and remember certain events in her life. From there the book is amazing! I definitely recommend this! If you want a page turning, psychologically thrilling, fall out of your chair book - read this!!!!!!! So damn good! Side note: I've got to see the film!!!!!!! View all 42 comments. Such an unusual perspective to come from. View all 8 comments. Shelves: physical-own , event-met-author , fiction-adventure-mystery , region-europe , , flavor-unreliable-nasty-narrator.
Sometimes I get flipped around while I sleep. My head ends up where my feet should be. As I wake up and wave my hand in the air for the nightstand, the freak out begins. Where the heck am I? It only lasts a few seconds before I figure it out, but the depth of my disorientation during those few seconds is always surprising to me.
So, the book and I were off to a good start when, on the page one, Christine wakes up confused in a strange room. Unfortunately for her, it is not as simple as seeing th Sometimes I get flipped around while I sleep. Unfortunately for her, it is not as simple as seeing the room in reverse. Every day she has to reacquaint herself with her husband, her house, the person in the mirror.
Christine has a form of amnesia wherein, after an accident, she lost the ability retain memories past a day. As Christine starts keeping a journal to help her remember, she discovers some unsettling discrepancies between what her husband tells her, what her doctor knows of her history, and her own reemerging memories. I bought this book at a favorite indie bookstore, Murder by the Book, where the staff is super knowledgeable and enthusiastic.
No matter what book I carry to the cashier, two or three people behind the counter will share their favorite aspect of the book and start rattling off other books in the genre that I have to read. They just start talking. When I bought this one to the check-out, there was a dead silence. Does it suck? He explained the ending is so amazing and unexpected that they all agreed to keep their mouths shut and not spoil it for anyone.
What a jerk. If you read the book expecting a mind-blowing ending, you might be disappointed. The whole time I was reading, my mind was running on all cylinders trying to solve the mystery. I was coming up with crazy ideas — I mean really outlandish ideas. The aliens wiped her memory after she stumbled on a plot to steal all the antelopes in Uganda.
Then they disguised one of their own as her husband to spy on her next door neighbor! Stop looking at me like that. The guy at the store said it would be totally unexpected. When I finally got to the end, I was let down by how simultaneously unrealistic and ordinary it was. Honestly, it reminded me of another book, view spoiler [ The Guardian hide spoiler ]. My recommendation: read with more tempered expectations for the conclusion.
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I just ruined it for myself with the hype. Having written all that, I enjoyed this book! I was in sync with her as she vacillates between trust and suspicion toward every character — including herself. Plus my husband was out of town. Even if a book is only remotely creepy, there is something about reading it in an empty house that makes it seem like the scariest thing ever see The Little Stranger.
If I had read the book without those two conditions, the rating may have dropped to three stars. You know what is coming next: my report from an event with the author! Right off the bat, Watson admitted he had not done many of these events. He advised us that if we heard a tremor in his voice, it was not his British accent — it was jet lag mixed with terror.
I loved him already. When he decided to focus more on his writing, he took step backwards in his health services career by taking a more junior job and cutting back his hours. What a bold move! He was inspired to write this book after reading an obituary about man who, after a surgery to cure his epilepsy, lost the ability to make memories. One of the audience members put him on the spot and asked about comparisons to the movies, Memento and 50 First Dates. The lady was very nice, but everyone knew the underlying bite: did Watson rip them off? I thought he handled himself well.
He admitted seeing Memento years and years ago. And he learned of and watched 50 First Dates only after hearing it mentioned so much when his book was published.
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Her loved ones could pretend everything was normal, because she was still young. Christine had aged a couple decades. It wasn't possible to keep up such a charade with all the wrinkles on her face. He also spoke of how he intentionally avoided all amnesia-related stories as he wrote. Set aside time and read it alone.
View all 20 comments. Feb 07, Luffy rated it it was amazing. I'm astounded that Before I Go to Sleep isn't one of those books that raked in 4. It's so damn good and the suspense is unrelenting towards the end. Unfortunately for me, the epub file that I downloaded contained too small letters.
Adjusting them whenever I chose to alternate between books was a pain but it was still doable and worth it Christine is an amnesiac who is trying to relive her past. The book begins slowly and the tension escalates slowly. Christine is not alone. She has a husband, and keeps a diary of her thoughts.
The book's chapters are from multiple times. I thought this format was in itself overplayed in books, but it didn't annoy me enough to dock one star from my rating of the book. I recommend this book heartily. View all 30 comments. Feb 28, Carol rated it really liked it Shelves: mystery-thriller , debut , suspense , library-ebook , read View all 25 comments. Read for Book Riot's Read Harder Challenge: 2 Read a Debut Novel I feel like this book would be a great introduction to the thriller genre for somebody who hasn't read any yet, but now that I've read a few great thrillers, this didn't quite live up to the hype.
The general plot for this book is super interesting, but in execution it was a bit weak, and not nearly as suspenseful as I was hoping it would be. Not tha Read for Book Riot's Read Harder Challenge: 2 Read a Debut Novel I feel like this book would be a great introduction to the thriller genre for somebody who hasn't read any yet, but now that I've read a few great thrillers, this didn't quite live up to the hype. Not that that's a bad thing, but I was hoping for more suspense. I feel like the movie handled the big twist better than the book did, and the pacing of the movie was also better.
View all 3 comments. Before I go to sleep, S. Watson Steven J. Before I Go to Sleep is the first novel by S. Watson published in Spring The novel is a psychological thriller about a woman suffering from anterograde amnesia. She wakes up every day with no knowledge of who she is and the novel follows her as she tries to reconstruct her memories from a journal she has been keeping. She learns that she has been seeing a doctor who is helping her to recover her memory, that her name is Christine Lucas, that Before I go to sleep, S.
She learns that she has been seeing a doctor who is helping her to recover her memory, that her name is Christine Lucas, that she is 47 years old and married and has a son. As her journal grows it casts doubts on the truth behind this knowledge as she determines to discover who she really is. Nov 29, Clumsy Storyteller rated it really liked it. You want your body to produce and regulate its own melatonin, not become dependent on pills. Although a deep, relaxing massage is ideal for winding down to sleep, a hot bath works just as well. Possibly even better. Immersing yourself in hot water relaxes your muscles and cocoons you in soft, nurturing warmth.
That triggers us to drop into the slower mode we need to sleep properly, in which our heart and breathing rates slow down so we can pass into dreamland. Aim for lavender or sandalwood, which are known to reduce anxiety and relax muscles. You may also like article continues below :. Waking up from a deep sleep because you have to pee is just awful. It interrupts your sleep cycle, and you might end up jolted fully awake by any number of things. Your dog might see your late-night fumblings as an opportunity to play, or you might step on a lego piece and hop around, swearing, before limping back to bed.
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