The surrogate is due in June, Danielle in August. My first thought was some kind of nice voodoo doll. She told me all the stories of women who had struggled to have kids for years, and once they had the doll they got pregnant. You have no real control of the outcome, and because of that the only thing you can hold on to is hope. Hope that this time will be different; hope that the doctor finally gets it right; hope that God or whatever higher power out there finally sees your plight. So despite how illogical it may seem…I did have hopes that the doll would work.
Before getting pregnant Danielle had gone on a long journey to conceive. She tried acupuncture and herbs, Clomid — to help her ovulate — had a hysterosalpinogram — a fallopian tubal flush — Intrauterine Insemination, and IVF. She built a Kokopelli altar, featuring a Shiva goddess, sage and palo santo, and healing crystals. The surrogate was about 15 weeks pregnant when I missed my period.
I decided to take a pregnancy test — because every fertility patient never really gives up — and it was positive! I had for the first time ever conceived without medical intervention! My blood work and ultrasounds came back perfectly. It was a true miracle. Both of the babies are miracles. I think the power of meditation and mindfulness worked, and the fertility doll was a part of that. Debbie has rules for the doll.
Sara is now 14 years old. There is a clear distinction. Each and every child conceived by IVF is precious, beautiful and loved by God. This is also true of every child conceived regardless of how he or she was conceived, whether it be by an unmarried teenager, a child of rape, incest, a test tube, or a child that is abandoned by the parents and adopted. Every child is legitimate but not every means of conception is morally defensible. That is not necessarily an argument in favor of IVF, simply an argument which cancels the RC [Roman Catholic] roller-coaster low-chance-of-success argument.
If something is true, it is true whether it is being said by an RC or an Evangelical. To say otherwise would be relativistic.
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There is absolutely no unity on this in the Evangelical world and this is also a red flag. Our Evangelical friend says:. Some might parse it even more closely and argue solely against the use of such weaponry. There are several distinctions. Every client is funding it. He would lose his license. This doctor is hiding behind unjust laws regarding abortion and embryonic research, to justify the death of not just one human. He has aborted thousands of babies through reduction.
He is an abortionist because he has committed abortion.
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To remove an intention of the pioneer and his successors to the present day, from the discussion of the legitimacy of the technology is problematic. Mat I suggest that the IVF tree is rotten to the core. Keep in mind that IVF itself stands on the shoulders of earlier medical advancements. By RC reasoning, we should now go back and invalidate those earlier advancements based on the evil they have now produced in the form of IVF.
We can all agree that a number of those earlier advancements ultrasound, surgical techniques, imaging, microscopes etc are morally neutral. One can quickly see the absurdity of the position. Whether something is wrong must be determined by looking at the thing itself.
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There was a distinct break in morality from its foundation, and from every development along the way. It is very similar to abortion which was built on medical advancements. The evidence piling up against its use is definitely admissible to the conversation. God, not the author and not Dr. Edwards, who creates life. IVF simply and solely does what we as humans can do to create the best circumstances for the infertile couple to conceive and have a child.
God does the rest. This is an argument in favor of IVF. Rape, incest, sex before marriage etc… But we can even use less charged examples. Lesbian couples use the same rationalization for IVF. I would propose that we can objectively look at every development along the way and see consistent faulty logic and massive loss of life. The entire IVF industry uses reduction which is abortion, and it often involves sex selection. IVF and abortion are intimately related. I heartily disagree. The destination of this technology is definitely admissible to the discussion.
We will not participate in their murderous intentions to change the way youth relate to sex, and we will not participate in the way Brinsden and IVF practitioners, intend to change the way that adults conceive. Only God can judge Dr. However, the objective facts are that he is responsible for numerous deaths and I will even use the word murder. Murder is the intentional taking of life, with full knowledge of the implications. Reduction fits this definition. It is a result of setting his heart against God, and he has dragged the entire culture along with him.
The intention of creating humans to destroy them is not at all the same as the occasional natural miscarriage in an intimate marital relationship. In fact, careful exposition of the scripture would lead one to believe that IVF scientists are in the vanguard of attacking the effects of sin on the natural world. They do so with no less skill or biblical approbation than those who have invented ways of desalinating water to irrigate deserts, or those who create disease resistant strains of seeds and plants that bring agrarian success and food to malnourished areas of the world, or indeed those who discover drugs and interventions for the myriad of other diseases and physical maladies in addition to infertility.
We may not have as much common ground as I originally believed. You are suggesting that IVF scientists are attacking sin in the world where their entire industry is build of death for profit. The systematic creation and death of human person is not equivalent to feeding starving people and discovering medical cures. This analogy is a great disappointment.
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There are ethical ways to scientifically address infertility. The irony stands out where the RC Church would argue vehemently that we as Christians should be about such work as that of eradicating poverty and other results of the fall, but not infertility. What did infertility do wrong to get singled out thusly? Many great faithful researchers are engaged in the fight against sterility without degrading and compromising life like IVF. While fully safeguarding the dignity of human procreation some have achieved results which previously seemed unattainable.
Scientists therefore are to be encouraged to continue their research with the aim of preventing the causes of sterility and of being able to remedy them so that sterile couples will be able to procreate in full respect for their own personal dignity and that of the child to be born. Napro Technology is much more successful than IVF and it destroys no embryos and does not separate sex from procreation. It is the official Vatican statement about IVF. I am not crazy about a divisional approach Catholics vs.
Many great Evangelicals would disagree with many of the arguments for IVF presented above. It takes an hour to read and is a much more articulate discussion of IVF than anything we can provide. The Dignitas Personae is here. Next, we finally get to the RC sexual ethic. Sex to the RC is at its essence procreative in nature. According to the Bible, however, sex is a matter of union between a man and a woman creating first one flesh, mirroring in some mystery the union of Christ with the church.
There is no mention of procreation in the most profound biblical discourse on sexual union, Ephesians 5. I suggest the unitive and procreative elements of a relationship are inseparable. You are referring to Ephesians 5 which says, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. Yet RCs advance procreation so far ahead of union and pleasure and sometimes go so far as to downgrade those aspects out of the picture. But even if we, for the sake of argument, accept the RC position on the procreative nature of conjugal union, it does not logically follow that any baby produced in any way other than by intercourse is wrong.
We do not put procreation ahead of pleasure. We simply suggest that a functional relationship cannot separate the two, you cannot have true long term pleasure and separate sex from the openness to life. Their separation is the cause of many social problems we have been facing in the last 40 years. It blows away IVF. The message boards are full of people who have been profoundly affected by IVF. Even Kligman admits it is a psychological minefield. IVF's moral foundation is unrelated to and unaffected by whether participating parents view a child as an object of right or ownership.
To think that we can isolate sin from our participation in it and our funding of it is problematic.
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IVF makes rich doctors richer and it makes Christians with money poorer without contributing to the poor. IVF in this way is part of our extreme consumer mentality. This concept that the measure of chance of success somehow invalidates a medical procedure could be used against a plethora of cancer treatments and other valiant attempts to save lives.
Aren't there many cancer and other medical treatments that have lower chances of success than various reproductive technologies. But we do not hesitate to utilize them. Women can keep going back for cycle after cycle, but for most after a long series of highly intrusive procedures and a roller-coaster of emotions there will be no child at the end.
Evidence of serious psychological ill-effects of these procedures is now emerging, especially for women whom these new biotechnologies fail.
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In the next generation we are likely to have a whole cohort of women suffering post-IVF trauma just as in our generation we have had so many suffering from post-abortion trauma. And yet again we can expect denial all round. In this Article.
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The full article goes into the details: Every biologist agrees that life begins at conception. If 24 people die in a bus crash and one survives, we wouldn't call that a "success". IVF fosters a mindset that every couple has the "right" to have a baby rather than the privilege granted by God. IVF babies form the distribution stream for stem cell research which experiments on them and kills them. Every IVF doctor is an abortionist by design.